Don’t Live in the Shadows
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A 30 Day Online Workshop
This workshop is for both single and married men. If you are struggling with pornography or sexual addictions, the X3pure workshop is perfect for you. Private, online and effective, the X3pure program can help you end the downward spiral of shame and alienation. Begin your recovery right now.
What you get
Online Video Sessions
The X3pure online video sessions are inspiring, comforting, thought-provoking, and honest. In just 30 days, you could regain your loving connection with your true self and the people who matter most to you.
Downloadable Book + Workbook
The X3pure workbook course materials are filled with the accountability tools and the solid guidance you need to work through overcoming your pornography addiction.
A Safe Environment
Confidentiality is a serious thing. With our encrypted workshop logins and secure billing, you can be sure that your recovery process is safe & private.
Online Small Groups
X3pure comes with 1 month of Small Groups Online offering the perfect place to find a community of people who experience the same challenges and struggles that you do.
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
This two-part section provides a broad overview of what will be accomplished throughout the program. Its ultimate destination is to answer the question, “Am I really addicted?” Central to this part is the introduction of our “Sexual Sobriety Map,” an at-a-glance tool for locating yourself throughout your recovery process and beyond.
White-Knuckle vs. Real Change
Since change is obviously at the heart of overcoming sexual addiction, the first of these two parts delves into the question “What is Change?” and provides a thorough introduction to the two types of change available for the recovering sex addict: “white-knuckle” and “real.” Just as “iron sharpens iron” (Pr. 27:17) the cornerstone of real change, which is our goal in recovery, is confession and accountability, discussed in the second part of this section.
One of the least-known aspects of sexual addiction is its physiology – that is, the way the brain has changed because of sex being used as a drug and how we can change it back. This section has three parts detailing a portion of the brain called the reward system. These three parts cover what that system is, what happens to the reward system when it has become addicted to sex, and what it will be like changing the reward system back into its normal state.
This section addresses the very goal of this program: going sober from your unwanted sexual behavior and finding freedom. There are two parts to this section that will help you learn how to “guard your heart” (Pr. 4:23) — creating a “victorious environment” for yourself and building an “escape plan” for when you are triggered and want to use your unwanted sexual behavior. These two parts detail what we call our “Sobriety Sheets.”
Acceptance of Conditional Love
For the sexual addict, the root of the addiction is having experienced, or currently experiencing, conditional love. Conditional love, unlike God’s love, is being loved or shown attention and affection only if a person behaves or acts a certain way. Conditional love, in all of its many forms, can cause a sense of anxiety that leads the sex addict to act out. This section helps you locate when and where conditional love exists in your life in preparation for our culminating section.
Pursuit of Unconditional Love
If conditional love is the root of sexual addiction, our goal in recovery is the conversion of conditional love into unconditional love. In four powerful parts, this section breaks down this conversion into our “Recovery Targets”: 1) Psychological Examination of Feelings; 2) Seeking, Establishing, and Engaging in Community; 3) Truth, Trust, and Territory; and 4) Development and Exploration of Genuine Faith. For “whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love” (1 John 4:8).
X3pure is the first online, confidential, streaming-video solution for dealing with sexual addiction. This workshop provides you with the absolute fundamentals for understanding compulsive sexual behaviors like masturbation, pornography use, extra-marital/pre-marital sex, or visiting strip clubs or prostitutes. Easy to understand and accessible, you can log on to this 30-day program from any internet-connected device at any time.